Still, marry first. Have first-hand experience. Live with a human being totally different from you. Manage conflict, disagreement. Have kids. Stay up all night.
Change pamper, get broke let your wife pay the bills to get back on your feet then we talk.
I’m going to 9 years in marriage, and as I am now, I still don’t have answers to half the takes on this app. That’s not me being humble. That’s the experience talking. Because it would humble you. Marriage will humble you.
I’ve watched people carry real issues in marriage issues beyond me. But here,you people will talk as if once it reaches their own door, they’ll handle it clean.
Marriage doesn’t make you right. It makes you slow to talk. The single man isn’t wrong because he’s single he’s loud because he’s never been humbled by the thing.
That’s why we say marry first. Not so you can win the argument. So you’ll respect how hard it is.
Let me even clear up this "marry first" nonsense.
Many of you are in terrible marriages. There is nothing supernatural about you being married. We didn't start meeting and talking to married people on Twitter.
A bad marriage is still a marital experience. Married people do not have same opinion on issues. If what you're saying doesn't make sense, it doesn't make sense. Whether you're married or not is irrelevant.
Your own marriage is exactly what YOU make if it. It is not the reflection of all marriages.