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Joined June 2019
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SEKEMI🍁 retweeted
Still, marry first. Have first-hand experience. Live with a human being totally different from you. Manage conflict, disagreement. Have kids. Stay up all night. Change pamper, get broke let your wife pay the bills to get back on your feet then we talk. I’m going to 9 years in marriage, and as I am now, I still don’t have answers to half the takes on this app. That’s not me being humble. That’s the experience talking. Because it would humble you. Marriage will humble you. I’ve watched people carry real issues in marriage issues beyond me. But here,you people will talk as if once it reaches their own door, they’ll handle it clean. Marriage doesn’t make you right. It makes you slow to talk. The single man isn’t wrong because he’s single he’s loud because he’s never been humbled by the thing. That’s why we say marry first. Not so you can win the argument. So you’ll respect how hard it is.
Let me even clear up this "marry first" nonsense. Many of you are in terrible marriages. There is nothing supernatural about you being married. We didn't start meeting and talking to married people on Twitter. A bad marriage is still a marital experience. Married people do not have same opinion on issues. If what you're saying doesn't make sense, it doesn't make sense. Whether you're married or not is irrelevant. Your own marriage is exactly what YOU make if it. It is not the reflection of all marriages.
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I just think most men are too lackadaisical about stuff like this. When they meet a woman, they let her fill that void and completely surrender that responsibility to her. Unless I don’t live in that house, I know where everything in the house is. I know when something needs to be replaced.
Yea, I once read studies showing that women, on average, outperform men in object-location memory. It’s one of those average gendered differences.
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Has anyone ever really caught their partner cheating pants down ? I feel that sh!t only happens in movies and music videos
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😭idk why you’re starting one without fucking
When you newly enter a relationship, when do you start fucking? Do you start instantly, or do you wait a while like a month or so? I need an answer please😭😭
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My landlord’s daughter who got married in Feb has been back home for over two weeks now. When she came back, she told everyone she was sick. Her parents suggested going to the hospital or getting medical treatment, but she said she just needed to rest. Yesterday her husband came to take her back, but she refused to go. That was when she finally opened up.
Uhm, how often are people actually supposed to have sex? Is there a normal number?
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What an honor to live this long. I bless the name of my Father in heaven. Happy birthday, Ette 🎊
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My new painting. The Last Dance
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Ever dated someone who vanished after the breakup? No calls, no texts, no drama. Just clean silence and a peaceful exit like you were never part of their life.
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Remain small make my hymen grow back
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May 30
She kept it for 8 straight days, followed the instructions on how to preserve since they were fresh flowers, kept pruning and recording each day 🥲🥲🥲. Now that they are dead she wants to frame them 😃😃😃. I don’t understand the logic but she was so happy, and that was enough.
The concept of a Nigerian woman asking for flowers is still funny to me. I’ll send fresh roses & lavender but yeah, what are you going to do with them after? Are you sure you don’t want a five liter bowl of Banga soup with imekpe instead?
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SEKEMI🍁 retweeted
Dating-to-marry doesn’t mean I’m dating you to marry YOU. I’m dating you to see if I want to marry you. But that’s a conversation nobody’s ready for.
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SEKEMI🍁 retweeted
parents are scared of last borns
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The woman who mother your children is far too important
“The Edge of Possible” Grateful to God and everyone who continues to pour into me. Happy Children’s Day 🤍
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instead of texting me ‘we need to talk’ ..you realize you can just text what you have to say.
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Men are so lucky 🥹 They get to suck breast.🤭
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Okay so I have ADHD
Having ADHD is feeling like you’ve always done something wrong after an interaction
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Eid Mubarak🩷
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Living is overrated actually..there is no point in this life.
I’ve lost interest in a-lot of things Including living . Not suicidal. I’m just mentally exhausted
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I broke a mug yesterday in my kitchen and I just swept it up and kept it moving. And I wonder why our parents made so much fuss about breaking things when we were growing up.
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Someone was raped and murdered in her home and a grown ass man is saying if she cooperated and didn’t put up a resistance, they would have spared her life. A dead dog is better than some of you.
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