We create platforms for liberation grounded in consent and safety. Platforms: @getheadero

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Sex is essential - and is among the most censored topics, by governments and corporations alike. This conversation is timely and needed. Sex must be grounded solely through the lens of safety and consent. We look forward to hearing from you @pmarca !
Hi @pmarca why was the Sex Tech mixer renamed (then removed!) from SF / LA Tech Week? How does this align to your free-speech position? Moving beyond stigma framing 4 sex is essential; our industry is kneecapped from doing so here sfgate.com/tech/article/sf-t… cc: @ElizabethDell
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Congrats to the @HeaderoApp community for this huge milestone ❣️ 100k is a LOT of pleasure-positive people! 🎉🎉
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I’d add a “yes and” to this. Gen Z is seeking authentic spaces to connect that are *fit for purpose* Yes, more social / digital first spaces for dating. It also means more social, honest, and inclusive spaces to seek sexual connection - our purpose @_ThotExperiment
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I'm often asked the why behind Headero. Thots: Sex-positivity: Being honest abt our purpose rejects stigma Inclusivity: Grounding in desire to create space for ppl of all identities Joy: Honesty intention allows us to create a joyful experience headero.com/post/why-headero

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Amazing news: @HeaderoApp has been named one of the top polyamorous dating apps by @MensHealthMag! Appreciate the coverage @ZacharyZane_ !
15 Feb 2023
Proud to share that we’ve been recognized as one of the 9 best polyamorous dating apps by @MensHealthMag! Hop on & select our polyamory / non-monogamy dynamic and connect with our sex positive community - for oral fun and much more! menshealth.com/sex-women/g42…
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Loved talking about the “why” behind @HeaderoApp and @_ThotExperiment with @SexpertLulu and @lauraljohnsen. Such a fun (but important) conversation!
"What we're doing is important. What we're doing really matters" Check out @sexpertlulu and @lauraljohnsen interview with Stephen Quaderer Founder and CEO of @_ThotExperiment and creator of @headeroapp. Listen here: open.spotify.com/episode/41i… #relationships #dating #inclusivity
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We love to see the @headeroapp community receiving recognition for being a welcoming space for people seeking a wide range of relationship dynamics - including polyamory and non-monogamy ~🖤~
Proud to see Headero listed as one of the top 5 dating apps for polyamory by @Cosmopolitan! Love to hear that our “sex-positive, kink-friendly, and open-minded environment” has resonated! Thanks so much for the thoughtful piece @Kay_Kibbe @gabrielleasmith!
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Reminder that sexual stigma serves no legitimate purpose. Sex should be grounded exclusively through the lens of consent and safety. Sexual stigma only reinforces existing, deeply broken, power hierarchies. Sexual liberation is human liberation.
Interested in a happier and healthier relationship this new year? Then reading this piece by @simone_paget in the @ottawasuncom might be just the ticket. Glad to contribute that kicking stigma to the curb is necessary for a good sex/love life. 🥰 bit.ly/3IuIiBD
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Gotta appreciate the hustle. No clowning around on the @headeroapp team 🤡 #Speakerofthehouse #speakerofthehousevote
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We're all about stigma-free sexual exploration. As our founder @itsquads notes in this @askmen piece - “For those into [BDSM] it can be a sexual wonderland — where all manner of sexual fantasies can be explored in a shame-free, safe, and consensual space." 🖤⛓️🖤
Curious to learn more about BDSM? History, FAQs and tips in this piece by @alex_icon in @AskMen Proud to contribute to the conversation and share that @headeroapp is a great place to discover others seeking ⛓️(& many other delights!) askmen.com/sex/naughty_sex/k…
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Honesty Consent & Safety = Joy
Interesting takeaway from @annaroseiovine in @mashable that "73 percent of users aged 18-25 want someone who is clear about what they want." Consistent feedback we hear from 80k @HeaderoApp members: "like @Tinder but honest." bit.ly/3UZtk9l
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If hearing “that will never work” fires you up please build a startup.
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10 Dec 2022
If you like porn, watch it. If you don’t, don’t watch it. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
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This is a friendly reminder that decriminalizing sex work is harm reduction.
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Compelling @OutInTech discussion on Inclusive Data. Topic is core to @_ThotExperiment’s mission to enable our community (like our decision to forgo ads and not sell user data). Nuanced but some clear takeaways (don’t sell sexuality/gender data!) & buy "Queer Data" @kevin_guyan
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Happy Polyamory Day! Shout-out to all the poly educators out there, teaching us about this (increasingly popular) relationship model.
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Bi men are so often rejected by cishet women because they are perceived as "not man enough", as tainted by sex with other men, or as a threat to monogamous relationship structures. This tells us that bi masculinity poses a threat to dominant masculinity, and that is a good thing.
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Great to see more recognition in the UK, this time with @MetroUK, for what we’re building with Headero! Thank you for the coverage @AliceGiddings3
2 Nov 2022
We’re super excited for Headero to be recognized in @MetroUK as being “super inclusive” and that “the only pressure you’ll feel building with this app is the rising orgasm” 😏💦 #orgasm #sex #dating #datingapp metro.co.uk/2022/11/01/eight…
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We’re super excited for Headero to be recognized in @MetroUK as being “super inclusive” and that “the only pressure you’ll feel building with this app is the rising orgasm” 😏💦 #orgasm #sex #dating #datingapp metro.co.uk/2022/11/01/eight…
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Join me as I chat with Stephen Quaderer, the founder of ThotExperiment. We will talk about Stephen, his career, and the sex-positive platforms he has developed. @_ThotExperiment This meeting is AUDIO ONLY. No one will have cameras on. #sextech #sexpositive #sexpositivity
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