When Shank said, “we start our lives so late in Nigeria”, I completely understood him. It’s because he’s seen another world; one that makes you realize how much more you could’ve achieved earlier if you’d simply had an enabling environment. That’s what exposure does: it changes your frame of reference.
Honestly, anyone earning a decent income shouldn’t just get comfortable. Strive for exposure. It does something to your life that you can’t measure in money. Exposure is also a confidence booster.
In my workspace, I’m the only guy among five young ladies—average age, 25. Each speaks at least three languages (one speaks four, another five!). One runs a thriving YouTube channel, another owns a kennel, another is a professional dancer. And they are all lawyers. I really admire them. When they recently found out my age, one of them innocently asked, “What have you been doing?”😂 I couldn’t even be mad. I just laughed, because I wish I’d known certain things earlier.
Still, I’m thankful. Thankful that now I know better, and that it’s a basic requirement for my kids to speak fluently other languages asides Yoruba and English, have hobbies and be consistently encouraged, possess incredible agency.
Because these are the things that make life truly livable.
If you have the means, invest in exposure. Do it often. The compounding effect will shock you.