If you think it is normal for your passport to be held for 8 weeks or more, you would have found comfort in being a slave 500 years ago. In that sense, you were born five centuries too late. I refuse to find comfort in such anomalies and I refuse to have my right to movement so impeded.
In all my public and private engagements with embassies, I have never denied their right to grant or deny me their visa. No country owes me a visa.
That's where that right ends. It does not extend to minuting on my passport after a denial. I challenged an embassy over this in 2015. That was the last time they did such a thing on any Nigerian passport.
That right does not also extend to holding one's passport beyond a certain point. Other Nigerians, for whatever reason, may be comfortable with taking such disrespect, I am incapable of accommodating what I can't take. I am a Nigerian, not a docile sub-human obediently accepting whatever gets thrown at me.
That is why I will be making a proposal for serious embassies, including Nigerian embassies abroad, to adopt a new order for visa processes. It is not even a new order per se, except that it will be unfortunately new for an inordinate number of embassies and high commissions.
PS: I saw a tweet from a CNN reporter about Nigeria charging exorbitant fees for its visas while his own country allows Nigerians easier access, I took up the matter privately with the minister in charge. He promised action on it. I didn't even reply said tweet. So, any such intervention that gets online only does so when offline efforts are deemed to have been exhausted.
Not only do I fight for easier visa processes for Nigerians, I do so for those looking to visit Nigeria. Because I know what it means to navigate these relics of days that have no place in modern times.