I don't even know how this Eid is going to go, I don't know if anyone is in my family is going to celebrate, I don't even have a dress to wear, because everyone is pulling funds together and taking to UCH for treatment for my aunt's sickness, as at yesterday she has been diagnosed with kidney disease, partial stroke and High blood pressure
My mom rotates between her work place and accident and emergency in UCH because of her sister, after loosing another one of her sisters Iast week, I don run errands tire together with cooking, going to classes and trying to show up for my brand too, I even told my brother not to come for the festivities because there's nothing to celebrate here.
This year has been a rollercoaster of happenings that test our faith in the family, I am typing this after a long day of running around in the hospital and donating blood.
But
Hasibunallahi WA ni ma ni Wakeel!
If you know anyone or organisation willing to help, please help me tag them, I will send every evidence they need to confirm 🤲🥺ejoor
In the spirit of mother's day, I need you to help me help my mom and my grandma...
So my mom has 5 sisters, 3 from her stepmum who is late and two from her mom and she's the eldest, but grandma practically raised all of them.
Last year one of her step sisters who was born after her was diagnosed with kidney failure and she had been undergoing treatment and dialysis even before my dad died last October.
The last child of my grandma who is my mom's sister too developed complications arising from pregnancy and that threw everyone into confusion, from high blood pressure to kidney problem and finally she lost the child, we have moved from oluyoro to Aremo maternity to some sunnah hospitals and other small hospitals and she's back home now because there was no money to continue the treatment, we did fundraising , did fliers(I attached the flier we did and we didn't even raise up to 200k with it),went to mosques to solicit for funds, my mum took loans and a host of other things.
Thankfully the elder sister's husband carried the responsibility of taking care of his own wife financially so everyone focused on the other sister who was financially incapable to bear the costs and we are still at it...
Just today my mom told me her immediate sister died on Tuesday and had been buried yesterday and grandma must not know because even another child of hers is in a similar situation that has taken the elder one bearing in mind that grandma had lost a son also in his early twenties few years back.
this woman is getting worse everyday and has very young children and everyone is drained...
I am not even asking you people to donate money at this point, if you know anyone that will be willing to help , any foundation, philanthropists, association or fundraising so we won't lose this woman too, she keeps crying everyday that she's in pain and there's no money to take care of her again, my mom is tired, her other sisters are tired and grandma is tired and weary plus all of them just lost a sister, they are carrying a pain they can't express🤲
My mom said to me today
"kini mo shey Ajoke, O ti su mi"
Your suggestions, help and contribution is welcomed at this point .
You can also help by reposting and helping me tag the people necessary
Please 🥺 🙏