Apparently enduring several months of pregnancy, giving birth where you can die, then having lifelong complications is not more complicated than some bureaucratic procedure. Pull the head out of your ass
Adoption is not like in movies where you stride on up to the orphanage and pick out a sad orphan or a talking mouse. It’s typically a very stringent process, and in a world where there’s far more prospective adoptive parents than orphans, it has every right to be.