There’s no bigger turn off than “I’ll send this if you do ___”. I hate that. It makes me feel so icky. Like I’m catering to you. Immediate block. NOOO THANK YEWWW
It’s ok to feel disappointed when subs don’t show up for you. Just remember that it’s a reflection of them, not you. There are so many subs willing to go above & beyond your expectations. You’ll find the right ones. Don’t feel like you have to hold onto less than you deserve.
Hate when a sub self-sabotages because he doesn’t think he deserves me. Of course you don’t. None of you do! That’s why you work day in and day out to prove yourself to me and spoil me!! Small sends, big sends, they all add up.