I was staying at a hotel in Shinagawa and the sole reason why I would stay there again at club lounge level is to visit the staff at the lounge. They made my mornings so pleasant and inviting. I always chatted with them and before I left I gave them several snacks from the U.S. and gave them a handwritten note in Japanese. Ironically half of them were foreigners like myself.
I think peak life is long-term human connection and I’d be wary of people who don’t have that.
The same small circle of friends for years. You always make time for them no matter the circumstances.
The same trusted household staff who work for you, who you take care of and overpay into oblivion (my cleaning lady charges 250, I pay her 400-500 every time).
The same restaurants and resorts where they know your name, know your siblings, and ask about your mother’s health. Same thing, you overpay into oblivion but it’s not the idiotic American tipping culture, no. You take care of your people.
Loyalty, taking care of your kith and kin and the people who work for you is aristocratic behaviour.