“Think about it,” she said. “About whether you might leave behind your critical voice, your greed and people-pleasing patterns. Or at least let them be weakened.”
“You will have to pry them from my cold dead hands,” I interrupted. “You do your little pitch, Syd, and I’ll do mine at the other end of the beach: ‘Try harder at everything. Hoard. Amass. Cling to self-promotion and perfectionism.’ I’ll tell them it’s why people respect you.
^^ Excerpt from Anne’ Lamott’s book Somehow. Always surprising, always delightful, always honest. One of my favourite voices in world.