Stop buying the lifestyle before you buy the assets.
There are three things I tell people not to do until they are actually rich, and the first one trips up almost everyone: lifestyle. You buy assets first, then you let the lifestyle come. The tchotchkes, the extra shoes, the jewelry, the cars, the big screen TVs, all of that comes later. First you get the apartments, the doors, the land, the stock, the things that build. That is the big one.
Number two: do not bury yourself in bad debt and torch your credit. Your credit, in my opinion, is as close to as important as your Social Security number. Guard it. Use good debt and good credit on purpose, because that is what lets you move fast when the right deal shows up.
Number three: stop loaning money to friends and family. They will almost never pay you back. No promissory note, no collateral, no terms, just goodwill and a memory. If you want to give, call it charity and give it freely. But do not call it a loan and then sit around waiting to be made whole, because that rarely happens.
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