My view is: youโre not actually mad at me, but mad at the situation. I grant that it sucks, but I didnโt cause decades of money printing and the pending sovereign debt crisis, and neither did you.
But in short: if the Mayflower was American, and leaving England to build New England was American, then leaving the dysfunctional old world to build the new is the most American thing you can do.
A longer response follows.
(1) DID THE IRISH AMERICANS BETRAY IRELAND?
First, did the Irish Americans betray Ireland by leaving for America? Why werenโt they loyal to Ireland? Why did they "cut and run"? Why didnโt they stay and fight the Irish Potato Famine?
And the Puritans...did they traduce England by not returning and fighting with the Roundheads? Were the Virginians disloyal to the other side, the Cavaliers? How about the German Americansโฆhow come they left Europe after the Revolutions of 1848?
Point: virtually every single US ethnic group, other than the African Americans and Native Americans, โfledโ some issue in the old world. War, civil war, communism, fascism, fundamentalism. The whole point of the New World was to leave behind dysfunctional, bankrupt statesโฆoften caught in the throes of endless left-vs-right conflicts.
If almost every single American is descended from someone who left a dysfunctional state, how can it be un-American to leave a dysfunctional state? Why could your ancestors leave dysfunction, why are they free men... but others canโt move, and are locked to the land?
(2) LOYAL TO BLUE OR RED AMERICANS?
Second, if someone tries being loyal to โthe American peopleโ, does that mean being loyal to the 75 million Kamala voters, the Blue Americans? Because if youโre loyal to them, you are unfortunately no longer loyal to the Red Americans.
And thatโs the rub. Just as Democrats use โdemocracyโ to mean rule by Democrats, and are then stunned that ~50% of democratic votes keep going to Republicans, Republicans keep using โAmericanโ to mean Red American, and are then always angry that ~50% of US citizens are Blue Americans.
Today, Gallup reports only 36% of Democrats are โproud to be Americanโ. They are, however, proud to be Democrats. Theyโre also not posting on X, but rather on Bluesky. The digital secession, the spiritual secession of Democrats away from a โUnitedโ States of America has already happened. Thatโs unfortunately what polarization means.
This Blue/Red conflict is exactly the kind of left-right fight that the Puritans and Cavaliers left behind in the 1600s, and the German Americans left in the 1800s. Just like there is no Korea, only North Korea and South Korea, there is unfortunately no America any more, only Blue America and Red America. And just like the Korean situation led to a Korean diaspora, the American situation is causing an American diaspora.
(3) STAY AND FIGHT, BUT WHO OR WHAT?
Then, if someone was to stay and fight, who do you want them to fight? Perhaps you want them to fight other Americans (namely Blue Americans), in the name of being an American. Or you want them "fight" a ~$175T sovereign debt crisis, which is like fighting a volcanoa, as it's just the largest bill ever due in history, and something even Elon couldnโt put a dent in.
TLDR: you canโt โstay and fightโ a sovereign debt crisis. Itโs not something you can punch in the nose.
(4) SHOULD INDIAN AMERICANS STAY OR GO?
Also, in case you haven't noticed, half of MAGA is yelling that Indian tech guys should leave the country, or never come, as they'll never be true Americans. Now others are suddenly mad that Indian tech guys are taking them up on it, and leaving America. Meanwhile, far leftists have begun just shooting at tech guys.
This is just a schizo and unstable situation.
(5) LOYALTY TO IDEALS WAS LOYALTY TO AMERICA
I am loyal to capitalism, democracy, free speech, free markets, science, math, wherever they are. I am loyal to peace and trade, small-l libertarianism, privacy, nonviolence, and technological innovation.
I am also loyal to a specific enumerated group of people, the many friends, coworkers, collaborators, and customers who Iโve worked with over the years, both US citizens and non-citizens, from the Stanford and Silicon Valley of a few decades ago.
These were essentially the mainstream American ideals for decades. Millions of Americans still support them. Indeed, millions of Americans think that blood-and-soil nationalism of the kind you implicitly propound is un-American!
(6) BLOOD AND SOIL, BUT WHAT BLOOD?
Finally, and now we really get down to brass tacks: what test do you propose to determine whether someone is a true American, aside from their current paperwork? Because unlike (say) the Japanese, there is no genetic test that correlates close-to-perfectly with US passport ownership.
Therefore, any definition of whoโs American *has* to be civic nationalism from a purely operational standpoint, defined at the โsoftwareโ level (in terms of law) rather than the hardware level (in terms of genetics).
Yet if you try to get N different rightists to define the โis_americanโ function youโll get N different definitions, with and without different minority groups. One that went viral recently is the โGrade A American = Mayflowerโ thing, which is sort of like wokeness in reverse, but for MAGA.
And look: loyalty means symmetry. I am loyal to you if you are loyal to me. But the way you're talking about loyalty translates to servitude. I've been polite, and engaged you in good faith, but we are strangers. Yet you are demanding gratitude and even deference (!) from me, implicitly on racial grounds, because "you didn't build that, someone else made that happen". Moreover, you are doing so by invoking "the people" in a right-coded variation of the way the Soviets invoked "the people."
I'm sorry, that doesn't fly.
Why would anyone be loyal to a MAGA faction that arbitrarily designates countless millions to be Grade B, C, and D? You can't just redefine the social contract overnight, unilaterally, with some tweets, into a retconned blood-and-soil America that the WASPs themselves shut down...and then get extremely mad when others don't buy into it.
We're just going have to renegotiate these kinds of relationships from scratch, with new opt-in communities, where everyone is a grade A citizen. If that means rebuilding New America outside America, just as New England was built outside England, so be it. The next Mayflower is boarding.