Younger me needed to hear "asexuals can have/enjoy sex" bc I thought that meant I couldn't be ace.
But when we jump to qualify the definition of asexuality with "but we can still have sex/be alloromantic!" is that about conveying a spectrum or to assure the allos we're "normal"?
I’m kinda sick of allos spreading the “aro/ace people can still be in romantic/sexual relationships!” thing cause I never hear anyone supporting those who aren’t and don’t want to be? And I’m saying this as an asexual in a relationship with an aromantic person. 😭
Just saying, as an ace who is sex positive, I support my fellow asexuals who aren’t, and all the aros out there who don’t want a relationship, even a QPR! You are all valid, loved, and a valuable part of the community.
Don’t let anyone make you feel pressured to get into any kind of relationship that you do not want just so THEY feel comfortable with your existence. Love you all and happy pride month!!! ❤️❤️❤️
i just think marginalized creators should also be given the grace to make stuff they like without the pressure of it having to be a masterpiece or the pressures of being a voice for their entire community
on that note. I really love the hellaverse fandom cause I've never once felt left out, made fun of, or ostracized here. I realize now that I'm older that the reason that would happen to me so often was very likely because of my autism haha. thank you all for being a safe place.
made myself sad remembering how much a character meant to me only to feel completely ostracized by the entire fandom to the point i can't even think about the character who brought me so much comfort now without feeling extremely upset. sighh.............................
made myself sad remembering how much a character meant to me only to feel completely ostracized by the entire fandom to the point i can't even think about the character who brought me so much comfort now without feeling extremely upset. sighh.............................