What kind of woman says, “I’m going to find a rich older man” on the phone with her dad… while standing right in front of her spouse?
A deeply disrespectful, manipulative, and emotionally abusive one.
This isn’t a joke or slip-up. It’s a blatant power move:
• Zero regard for her partner’s feelings
• Classic narcissistic play — public humiliation to unsettle and control
• Gold-digger/transactional mindset: “soft life” over loyalty
• Passive-aggressive hostility dressed up as casual talk
It’s a massive red flag for verbal/emotional abuse that erodes self-esteem. Real partners don’t talk like this in front of you — especially not to their parents.
Run.