A simple woman trying to figure out this crazy thing we call life. If y’all figure it out let me know. Till then laugh instead of cry & love instead of hate.

Joined January 2014
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19 Mar 2020
Lack of sex will have you mad at everything... Like who the fuck put grass in the yard???
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No relationship is ever a waste of time. If it didn't bring you what you want, it taught you what you dont want.
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A person who trusts no one now, once trusted someone too much.
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The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces, but the right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace.
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Be selective with your battles. Sometimes peace is better than being right.
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When it's time to make a change, the universe will make it so uncomfortable for you that you will have no choice but to leave. When you are not happy in a situation, don't stay in denial and try to make it work. The world has better plans for you, trust in the process.
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It doesn't matter who you used to be; what matters is who you decide to be today. You are not your mistakes. You are not your mishaps. You are not your past. You are not your wounds. You can decide differently today and at every moment. Remember that. You are offered a new opportunity with each breath to think, choose, decide and act differently in a way that supports you in being all that you are capable of being. You are not less than. You are enough.
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There comes a time in your life when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living.
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Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.
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Don't ever feel sad over someone who gave up on you. Feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who was always there and would have never given up on them.
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17 Jun 2025
It is better to be alone than to be with someone who is half there or doesn't want to be there.
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17 Jun 2025
Sorry for being MIA for a few days. My best friend’s fur baby was diagnosed with a soft cell sarcoma and had her left rear leg amputated. It’s been really hard on my friend. She blames herself and so I’ve been helping take shifts watching baby Zoe and keep her from biting and licking her incision. She’s doing AMAZING. she’s walking better than expected and even tried running at one point.
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If you love deeply, you're going to get hurt badly. But it's still worth it. ~C.S. Lewis
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You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back And observing everything with logic; true power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you; breathe and allow things to pass.
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8 Jun 2025
Sometimes you just have to embrace the chaos that you are. Left my curls go naturally for the first time in a long time. It reminded me life isn’t always smooth and straight. Occasionally you have to bend with the curves and just go with it.
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Follow your heart, but take your brain with you.
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28 May 2025
Second trip for mani and a real pedi this time completed. Last time was just a quick polish change this time I had a full pedi done. It felt amazing. Obviously didn’t touch my scar but the rest was much needed. Knee is coming along nicely I think. Incision is fully healed. Still picking a few pieces of glue off lol. I’m getting around easily in the house with no assistance. I do use a cane outside the house. I’m still a bit unsteady without it. It’s how day at a time. Trying to increase my mobility a little more each day just like trying to be a better person a bit more each day. Thank you for all the prayers and support and checking in on me. I truly appreciate each one of you. I know I’ve been scarce but I’ve had my hands a bit full lately. I’ll work on being more present. 💜💜
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12 May 2025
Busy weekend. First trip out since surgery and got my nails done. Then off to my first checkup with the surgeon and got my bandage off. (Sorry if you’re squeamish but honestly it looks much better than I expected) No stitches to remove they’re all internal dissolvable ones and surgical super glue. He said it looks awesome and is very happy with my progress. I go back in 4 weeks. I’ve been released to go to the office for physical therapy and I’m no longer using the walker. I have a cane when outside but in the house I’m walking on my own. Final step before going home is being able to get in and out of the shower on my own. I love my friend but I do miss my own bed. I’m hoping to be home next weekend if all goes well.
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Here's my wish for peace of heart and soul for all those women who put on a smile and make their way through this day for others so no one sees their pain. Just know you're not alone and there are those who shed a tear with you for those we've lost be it a Mother, a sister or a son or daughter. Love you all and hope however you choose to spend your day it's one that brings you love and happiness.
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We are all just a car crash, a diagnosis, an unexpected phone call, a new love or a broken heart away from becoming a completely different person. How beautifully fragile are we that so many things can take but a moment to alter who we are for forever?
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