Bear was a piece of shit and is the REAL villain of this story
One of the most disturbing moments in Obsession isn't the horror itself it's what it represents.
When Bear confronts Nikki about her dad's cancer, the entity slips and says, "Don't do that. I thought we were having a nice date."
Not "stop accusing me." Not "you're wrong."
Just: don't break the illusion.
It's as if the entity is acknowledging that both Bear and the audience already know this isn't the real Nikki, but choosing the fantasy is easier than facing reality.
Then it asks, "Why does it matter?"
And Bear, despite every warning sign, chooses the lie over the real person.
The film immediately cuts to the sex scene, turning the entire moment into something deeply unsettling because the question isn't whether Bear knew.
It's how much he was willing to ignore.