thoughts from a man trying to build something worthwhile

Joined February 2022
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You don't need to be the smartest man in the room. You don't need to be the richest. You don't need to be the most charismatic. You just need to become a little stronger, wiser, and more capable than you were yesterday.
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As a 27 year old man, I have spent years trying to avoid failure. Ironically, I have found that confidence usually comes from surviving failure and realizing it didn't destroy you. Keep failing. Keep growing.
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A lot of men think confidence is something you find, when in reality, it's something you build. One workout. One difficult conversation. One uncomfortable decision at a time. One dollar saved at a time.
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One of the biggest financial advantages you can have in your 20s is patience. Most people quit after six months. Compounding rewards those who stay in the game
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No matter what society may tell you: your 20s aren't for looking rich. They're for building the foundation that makes wealth possible. The people who win later are usually willing to look ordinary now.
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One of the hardest lessons I've had to learn as a man in his 20s: Confidence doesn't come from thinking you're great. It comes from keeping promises to yourself long enough to trust your own word
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One thing I’ve learned so far in my mid 20s is not to waste time stressing about things out of my control. My energy is much better spent on the things I can control, and everything else will fall into place as it should.
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Money management is more important than making money. Let that sink in...
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Most growth is painfully unremarkable while it’s happening, especially in your 20s. You go to the gym. Read the books. Save the money. Say no to distractions. Work on yourself quietly. For months, nothing changes. Then one day your life looks completely different. Compounding feels invisible until it becomes undeniable
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A lot of people want a better life without becoming a better steward of their current one. More money won’t fix undisciplined habits. More freedom won’t fix lack of direction. Life expands whatever already exists. That’s why your life won't compound in the way you want until you seize the reins...
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So many of us in our 20s will set some lofty goal, ride the short wave of motivation, and then fizzle out... The part that we missed is that we get so caught up on the "goal," that we fail to focus on the "systems," which are the true key to getting the results we want.
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Gm to all my future millionaires 🌞
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Routines shape identity quietly over time. When your daily habits become aligned with discipline, health, faith, and purpose, life starts feeling more stable internally. Build Routines. Build systems.
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Get addicted to getting up early, praying, hitting the gym, eating healthy, and focusing on your goals.
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One thing I’m starting to pick up on in my financial journey so far: Income = Rich Assets = Wealth You get paid for what you do. You get returns on what you own.
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Gm to all my future millionaires ☀️ Let's aim to take one small step forward in compounding our lives today!
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The people you admire most still doubt themselves. The people who look successful still feel behind in certain areas. The people who seem confident still carry uncertainty. I'm finding that so many adults that I cross paths with in life are still learning how to carry responsibility while staying functional. Some simply hide it better than others. That realization has made me feel so much calmer and at ease with my own life at 27. You don’t need to become fearless overnight. You just need to keep moving forward long enough for your life to compound.
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I was not mentally prepared for how strange your late 20’s truly are... My friend and I are always talking about how everyone around us suddenly seems so much more successful than we are. Some are buying houses. Some are getting promoted. Some are getting married. Some are even having kids. And I will fully admit that at 27, I am guilty of treating everyone else’s timeline like my own. That is the mistake most people my age seem to be making. They have convinced themselves they are behind. When I have these feelings of doubt/insecurity, I have been challenging myself to list valid reasons for why I’m behind in life. I have found that I don’t get much farther than statements like “because I’m not where he/she is…” It has helped a lot to stop and ask myself, “why in the world would someone else’s life determine if I am ahead or behind in my own life?” Because the goal isn’t to live someone else’s life. The goal is to live mine.
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