When I was younger, I didn't understand the stereotype that wives never want to have sex with their husbands because I as a female had a very high drive and desire for it. As I got older, I realized it is because womens' pleasure is not prioritized and most men just suck at sex.
heterosexual sex is crazy because wdym you only want to get off like the woman you're supposed to love is just a fucktoy. I could never do anything with someone who isn't as willing and enthusiastic about it as me