i've followed a lot of dating discourse and i can confidently say that "red pill" is the closest to ideal in today's world.
the argentina casting "scandal" provides a fascinating insight into it. you have women who are in committed, happy long term relationships, some with kids, some married, agreeing to shoot unprotected p*rn with a random guy for $80-200
they're outraging and calling it a "scandal" now that it has come to the public eye. but gave their written consent at the moment.
to an average male reader this doesn't make sense. why would you throw years of healthy relationship under the bus for a few bucks?
part of the answer is how the two sides see sex and intimacy. men still treat it as the highest, anvexclusive form of connection while modern women have evolved to treat it as a transactional activity.
sex for promotion, fame, a free meal, eighty bucks, or just "feeling better in the moment." even withholding sex in marriages/relationships to get things done their way
so you end up with one group that sees intimacy as the closest you can get to another person, and another that treats it like a handshake. that mismatch creates exactly these scenarios.
red pill makes sense because it tells you straight: you cannot blindly trust a modern woman. you can enter a relationship, even get married, but never go all-in on trust. she'll always be loyal to her feelings before she's loyal to you
play the game but be informed while you do it (and have fun)
La historia más viral sobre Argentina Casting es el de esta morra que se vio con su novio y grabó un video nopor el mismo día.
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