so i've worked all day to on connectig two boards and ofcouse i had to overthink the problem, and ofcouse the AI helped me in over complicating the problem even further😋. I needed a reliable way to connect and first thought was to check each ips in the network for a specific response. This ran for 25 min on the esp32, not good, ask to do another way something with a lot less timeout wasted, added TCP checks, down to 8 min, finally vent down to 30 seconds with random checks on near ips (but this could go to 12 min again if the random checks retuned nothing. Being MAD i started thinking about the problem again and found something that AI did not propose and did not hint, If i need a relailable way to find the boards i could just give the boards pre asigned IP's, no checks no timing no nothing full functionality on wifi connection.