Dear Ladies,
When you finally meet a man who don’t mind spending time with you, loves to be under you, don’t mind planning dates, protects you, makes you feel safe, don’t let you go to sleep mad & lifts you up on your bad days….You take care of that man and give him the world
I just started watching the Indian & Jewish Matchmaker & it’s actually kinda mindblowing that this is LEGITIMATELY the very basics of all other culture’s criteria for dating/marriage but when Black women in the say it, they’re demonized & gaslit — & called every name in the book.
Not every layer of who you are is safe with everyone. Any type of access to your raw unfiltered energy is a privilege that should be handled & given with strict exclusivity.
Why do niggas want us to experience hardship with them to prove our love and loyalty so bad?
Why are they obsessed with that shit? Do you have a struggle kink?
#Leo:
1. Believe red flags.
2. Trust patterns not apologies.
3. Don’t fall in love with potential.
4. Be careful who you vent to.
5. Know when to let that shit go.
6. If it feels wrong don’t do it.
7. Remember your worth.
8. Trust your intuition.
9.Don’ t lower your standards.
Give the kids at HIT 24hrs and you’ll have an automated Exemption Letter system on WhatsApp that police can also use for verification. Zero paperwork. Zero bureaucracy. Almost zero cost. Give young people a chance, hamuzvigone izvi.
In a bachelor's house there is that one toothbrush all the Girlfriends use when they come for a sleepover and each one of them think it's only her who use it.😋😋😋