Mo Xiuyao, I know you're suffering, but seeing you lose your temper with Ye Li really makes me feel so bad for her. When you're angry, you always say hurtful things, but ik its also hurt you. It's so hard for both of you.
When Qing Shuang reappeared by Ye Li's side, Ye Li comforted herself, βItβs okay, it will be okay,β which made me even sadder.
Ye Liβs actions were indeed so extreme, and Mo Xiuyao certainly had right to be angry. However, I understand her because I actually felt that Ye Li didn't have long time to heals him, so she wanted to finish these things asap. I actually feel that Ye Li is already dead, died eight years ago on Mount Li, but because there are so many things she still needs to do, she had a final burst of energy. In order to survive, she could only weave an illusion for herself. I think she sensed that her time was running out, so she wanted to complete her revenge, repay her debts of gratitude as quickly as possible.
Actually, they're both sick and wronged and no need to compare who's more miserable? It's completely unnecessary. Ye Li went to any lengths to heal Mo Xiuyao's leg and fulfill her promise to her brother, but this method was truly insane. It was definitely well-intentioned, but from Mo Xiuyao's perspective: he encountered danger while out, and his wife lured away the bandits, leaving him helpless. At that time, Mo Xiuyao himself had broken his leg. Later, she finally returned unharmed, only to discover later that the accident was planning by his wife. What about his anxiety and sleepless nights? Later, she said it was to heal him, to cure him, that she risked her life. Mo Xiuyao truly couldn't bear Ye Li's kindness.
Ye Li carried too many responsibilities and pressures: the deaths of her senior brothers from Lishan and Qing Shuang, the passing of her mother, the crimes committed by the Ye family and Marquis Muyang, and the guilt she felt towards the Prince Ding's Mansion.
In Moli episode 13, the bitter-sweet relationship between Mo Xiuyaoβs and Ye Li is shattered by the tragic fate of his elder brother and Prince Dingβs family. Basically their relationship is still as fragile as glass, so any misunderstanding will easily crack the layers. No one is right or wrong in this situation if we speaks in two-ways pov.