In my latest video, I ended up having to safeword because the new toy was way more intense than either of us thought it would be.
Some may wonder why the video wasn't stopped immediately.
The reason for this is my own personal preference.
I'd rather show the authentic and healthy dynamic I have with my partner, which, for us, includes making sure that I'm okay before worrying about anything else.
I think it's important to show new-to-the-scene young adults that caring for your sub isn't optional. My well-being always comes before any filming or content creation.
If through my content I can display what a healthy dynamic looks like, I want to do that. Healthy practises are so underrepresented in adult content.
If I had asked Aure to stop the camera immediately, she would have. She checked on me first because that's what we've agreed on.