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7 Oct 2024
I remain the best plug for household and kitchen items in Abuja. Check out menja.ng on IG. instagram.com/reel/DAqKXgGOf…

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Loud to that guy cos every of his podcast na rubbish and when such people in the house Poor pikin and advice 5&6
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I run a non profit aimed at fighting period poverty. Asides going on outreaches, I give out sanitary pads on a daily basis to women and young girls that GENUINELY can’t afford it. If you know that you GENUINELY can’t afford sanitary pad every month, please you can come and pick up from my store in Wuye Abuja. If you know anyone who needs, direct them to me. If you support a neighbor or friend with pad every month, please reach out as well. The pads are meant mostly for individuals and end users. What this means is that I can’t donate pads to your NGO or outreach, please kindly understand. Thank you 🙏
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French quarter Festival, then Jazz Fest. NOLA is always alive 😁
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Let me tell you something that hurts, but that sets you free. Yea I know, I'm a harbinger of bad teas, but if i don't spill it, who will? Not everyone who is part of your story is in your corner. There are people who have been with you since the beginning, but can't stand to see you grow. They applaud when you're small, but get uncomfortable when you start to rise. And this is confusing, because we believe that time together means loyalty, means friendship, but it doesn't. There are people who know your story, but don't want to see your next chapter. They smile on the outside, but inside they're hoping you don't go too far. Not because they hate you, but because your growth confronts their own limitations.  And psychology explains this well. It's hard to accept. It hurts to realize that not everyone who saw you start will celebrate when you arrive. But maturing is understanding one simple thing. Presence is not support. There are people close to you who are not with you. And here's the important part. You don't need to fight. You don't need to confront anyone. You don't need to make a scene. You just need to see it, become aware of it, and little by little, adjust who you let in. Not everyone deserves access to your process. Not everyone needs to know your plans. Not everyone should be backstage in your life, because some people aren't rooting for you. They're just watching, and sometimes waiting for you to give up so they can celebrate privately. So hold on to this. Value the people who genuinely celebrate your wins without competing, who are truly happy when you evolve, because those people are few and rare.  As for the others, don't carry resentment. Carry awareness. Not everyone who is part of your story deserves to be part of your future. If this makes sense - which I'm sure it does, share it, and someone out there might need it.
All of us are going to go through this at some point. If you're not already going through it, maybe you already have. You're going to get fed up with the environment you're in, tired of the people around you, tired of the situation you're living. You're going to reach a point where you're done with your current situation and you'll end up alone, solitary, because you'll realize that the place you want to go, the person you want to become, doesn't align with the people and environment you're in today. And because of this, unconsciously, you'll tend to stop going to those places, stop hanging out with those people. In fact, many people reading this noticed that some friends or colleagues slowly drifting away without any obvious reason. Actually, it's because of this. People made big decisions in their lives and saw that it no longer makes sense for them to be in that environment they were in. So many times they choose to be alone rather than stay in places that no longer align with them. I'd say this phase is an awakening phase. It's a phase where we're more reflective, seeking new environments and new people to be part of our lives. People who make sense and align with the person we want to become and the places we want to go. It's crazy, right? But I'm sure many people have been through this, are going through it, or will go through it.
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Tulip Bistro had the best Ceaser salad and Baby chicken 2015 to 2022. I wonder if they still do. I miss Abuja
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Checkout my shop, if you live in Abuja and just want all the good things, that make chores easy and gives your kitchen that sweet vibe instagram.com/reel/DU5T1qeDS…
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Dear Abuja/Lagos food vendors remove those sausages from that fried rice and return the liver. Thank you.
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Bluey is passing through my town.... Me: Yeahhhhh!!!!! Checks tickets $225 for front row. Me: I have internet and bluey is showing. Close that page Menja 😤
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Does anybody have a house that is accessible to Marina that they’re not using? A lovely house in a seren environment? Please 🥹
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If I’m sick and the woman I love can watch me struggle and still choose herself first, something in me would quietly break that night. Love is not about who cooks or washes, it is about who shows up when the other person cannot stand.
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For quality of life, it is better to err on the side of being an optimist and wrong, rather than a pessimist and right
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18 Dec 2025
Is there a NIDO community in New Orleans?
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28 Nov 2025
Condoms are a barrier to STIs and HIV What the lube does is to minimize friction during sex, hence preventing condom breakage further protecting you against HIV Please go and get tested, it is free Help us win the battle Thank you 🙏🏽
28 Nov 2025
Please HIV is still very much out there Know your status today For the Muslims, please you can go to National Mosque after Friday prayers to be counseled & tested for HIV for free Condoms and lubricants will also be given out Don’t say the government didn’t do anything for you
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If you are looking for pure undiluted and long lasting perfume oils, I’m your best plug. Location is Wuye Abuja and we deliver nationwide. Pls help RT🙏
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25 Aug 2025
If you need amazing household and kitchen items click this link... kindly repost and send to your people 🙏🏿 instagram.com/reel/DNQFc5kIO…
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9 Sep 2025
selar.com/p/32p669?affiliate… For 3k learn capcut. Video editing is such a valuable skill

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