It’s not fair that she’s getting piled on. It’s valid that some people want their friends to be more present in their lives and it’s also fair that others don’t have the capacity for it.
I don’t think it warrants bumping them from friend to acquaintance esp if they show up for you when it matters, but I also understand that it could be frustrating and hurtful when you’re the only one constantly checking in.
Everyone should just communicate their needs and bandwidth then compromise in the middle 🤷🏽♀️
I do not subscribe to “catch up” culture anymore. If we’re not actively in each others lives anymore I’ll just have to call you an acquaintance.