Sadly, there are many women who make poor choices, and have children with men they know are fugitives. When they get caught, and are sent away they’re not “victims,” in a traditional sense..
The woman decided to put herself and her children in a bad situation.
But they have to follow the law from here on out if they want their life and their children’s lives to get better.
Or she can just sit around, make videos, and feel sorry for herself, and in that case, she’s just being a bad mom.
She should teach her children that they have agency, and what’s right from now on.
Try to help him straighten out his legal problems, but if he continues to want to be a criminal trespasser, and not take the steps to become a legal citizen, it’s time to cut your losses?! President Trump has been more than fair, offering $3,000 to people who turn themselves in, and a free plane ride back to their origin Country? That’s real nice..
So tell your “children’s father,” that he must obey the law, and teach both of your children the right way to live. If they have to be separated for a while, it’s because of what he did, and what you signed up for. Not because of what was done to him.
Don’t teach your kids to be losers.