Happy Pride month, y’all!
If you aren’t familiar with Pride, it is simply a declaration and celebration of the dignity, equality, and brilliance of LGBTQ folks.
In the church world, celebrating Pride Month can be controversial, but I really don’t think it should be. Declaring the equality of all people and lifting up the unique ways we all embody God’s image shouldn’t be controversial at all. But for me, Pride isn’t only about broad support of the LGBTQ community. Pride is also about my friends—many of whom are a part of our church family at Restore. It’s about people I deeply love who have been severely harmed at the hands of Christians and churches.
You see, my friends have stories. Stories that some of you wouldn’t believe. Stories of being condemned to hell, being called “abominations,” being disowned by their families, attempting suicide, and even tortured and abused through conversion therapy attempts. LGBTQ exclusion and marginalization has caused immeasurable harm to queer folks, but it has also really messed up the church. Because when we exclude people God told us to include, we miss out on the gifts and talents they bring. We miss out on the unique ways in which they bear God’s image and express the fruit of the Spirit.
I can tell you firsthand just how much more Christlike love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control our community embodies because of the LGBTQ folks who pastor, preach, and lead at our church. I am so grateful to lead alongside them ❤️🏳️🌈