“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up.” (1 Corinthians 13:4 NKJV)
Each area about love in this passage, from verse 4 through 8, can almost be taken separately as its own teaching, but for the sake of this study, let me give a short synopsis of each.
Patience, or long-suffering, is a key attribute of love, both in God’s relationship with us and in our relationships with others. The Greek word "makrothumei" conveys a willingness to endure difficult circumstances and people without retaliation.
Kindness is an active expression of love, evident in a desire to do good. The Greek term "chresteuetai" suggests a gentle and gracious disposition in this endeavor and is a call to selfless acts.
Envy, or jealousy, is a destructive emotion, the opposite of what love should be. The Greek word "zeloi" denotes a desire for what others have and can lead to resentment. On the other hand, a person who loves seeks the best for others and is content and thankful for what they possess.
Boasting is also the opposite of love and incompatible with it. The Greek term "perpereuetai" suggests arrogance about a person’s achievements or qualities. Love, however, is humble and focuses on building others up rather than taking personal glory.
And pride, or arrogance, also goes against what love is all about. The Greek word "phusioutai" describes someone who is puffed up and inflated with self. Love, however, elevates others above themselves and, in true humility, seeks the good of others above their own.
I thought I’d add a Short Outline:
Love Suffers Long – Love patiently makes allowances for people’s faults and doesn’t give in to anger.
Love Is Kind – Love not only endures wrongs but shows kindness in return.
Love Does Not Envy – Love doesn’t seek advantages, possessions, or gain. Instead, love remains content.
Love Doesn’t Parade Itself – Love doesn’t show off or brag. It doesn’t seek praise or applause.
Love Isn’t Puffed Up – Love isn’t prideful or arrogant; rather, it’s humble
There’s a lot here, so thank you for putting up with me. Take care and God bless