definitely a human because my bio is not just a list of links 🤷 ephant@bsky.social

Joined May 2015
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I have a webnovel about love! and neurodivergence! and being queer! and processing trauma! And parenting! And like… other stuff? I guess? You can read it with either your eyes or your ears (there’s a podcast feed!) on lekendall.com

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I'm not really on twitter anymore, so if you have bsky please follow me there... BUT ALSO I do have a #TWBP update for you! lekendall.com/archives/1115 TL;DR not abandoned, everything is coming along, new content "soon" (time is fake).

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oh no, so many friends I have missed are here 😢
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Replying to @Uber
@Uber every time I get orders delivered via an Uber partner driver (I don’t order via Uber directly) they end up at the wrong address even though my address is listed correctly. The Uber Eats app sends the driver to the (same) wrong address.
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This does not happen if I get an uber home, btw. If I use the regular Uber app to get an Uber to my house, the directions are correct. It is only when a restaurant (or supermarket) outsources to Uber Eats that the drivers are misdirected. (The driver does have the right address!)
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ephant (same name at bsky) retweeted
A sincere plea to remember that people with serious/complex mental illness are overwhelmingly more likely to become victims of violent crime than perpetrators of it.
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Love my new @FancyLadyInd t-shirt!!!! 😍😍
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Love a cute shirt which goes around my boobs without becoming a dress at the bottom
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I had to take time off work after my husband proposed to me because I just… could not do anything apart from crying
8 Apr 2024
Intense positive emotions can contribute to meltdowns and burnout just as much as negative emotions can. #Autism
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“you’re so understanding, thank you!” me: haha thanks, i’ve been abandoned by so many people that i’m afraid of upsetting anyone in case it causes them to leave, so y’know... *finger guns*
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I'm not (at this stage) intending to change my legal name at all, it will still be my nome de portefeuille... but I did change my name at the doctors office because they have fields for preferred name and personal pronouns in their system and can do that 😊
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6 Apr 2024
And because of that, all my "habits" are very fragile. Any kind of interruption can break that whole chain. Even small changes in environment or accessibility can take one link out and then I'm struggling, and things get missed, or I'd stress out going "backward" for them. 5/?
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More kids are being diagnosed as autistic nowadays… and also more adults… The adults that weren’t diagnosed back when fewer kids were diagnosed! 🤔
there have always been autistic people, we were called “old souls” or “a bit odd” or “a pleasure to have in class” or “you should really consider joining the priesthood”
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there have always been autistic people, we were called “old souls” or “a bit odd” or “a pleasure to have in class” or “you should really consider joining the priesthood”
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So many kids are being diagnosed w autism these days what’s up w that
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#TWBP I am going to miss my self-imposed 1 April deadline for Tamika ep1 because 7_zip is sick again and I can’t record while he is home. So some time after Easter…
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A lot of younger conservative women think they’d love the 50’s trad wife lifestyle but like if those 50’s wives didn’t hate their husbands why were they feeding them savory jellos? “Did you have a good day at the asbestos farm sweetie here’s some shrimp and eggs in horse glue”
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I think I hear my neighbours arguing over a nursery rocking chair, maybe I'll take a quick break from having coffee in the garden with my husband to bring them over some homemade chili just as soon as my daughter figures out how to open the cans of beans
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Considering, again, rewriting (some of) #TWBP (part one) to be almost entirely from Alan Sebastian’s POV.
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I will be making this decision myself and not just because other people think I should.) The other thing that i think I have started to do very well is to write about things without saying them out-right…
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and showing things that Alan Sebastian might be interpreting in an unreliable way but audience will put things together much more quickly than he does.
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