Even tho theyre different, the thing that makes them similar is that they couldnt meet their parents unreasonable expectations. they cope way differently bc of different circumstances of course, but they're both afraid of showing their true feelings
Ragathas trauma and Jaxs trauma are not the same thing
Ragatha's abuse was related to her achieving being a "perfect child," while Jax's abuse is deeply tied with emotional incest
None of the two are less than the other but they aren't comparable