@uhealedme
1. As I said in the text where I discussed the images, I stated that this was information that had been passed on to me. So, the reason I referred to you as a model is because that is what I was told, and if that bothers you, then I apologize for calling you a model. That’s simply what people tend to assume when they see someone posting photos of their body online and presenting different styles; they may think that person could be a model.
2. I never said or claimed that you sold NSFW content. I was speaking only about the image in which you showed your body, so I inferred that perhaps you modeled or sold bikini-related content. That does not imply pornography or any kind of pornographic suggestion.
3. I was not aware of the evidence you later presented, so I cannot be expected to have known something I genuinely did not know. I was only commenting on the image itself and the fact that I was not 100% convinced it had not been edited in some way. I do not think there is anything wrong with having that impression. However, you also cannot claim that I had prior knowledge of the evidence you later provided.
If you think my assumption was foolish, that is fine. But saying that I lack education or do not know what metadata is because I am Colombian comes across as somewhat racist. I understand that you are upset with me, but I think you are overreacting and attacking people based on their background, as though people from the United States were somehow inherently more educated. That is simply absurd. Here in Colombia, as throughout Latin America, there are many educated and cultured people. Regardless of what you think of my comment, that does not justify making assumptions about my ethnicity, culture, social background, or nationality.
4. I have no problem admitting that I made a mistake by claiming that your photo was edited or by not fully trusting that it wasn’t. At the end of the day, it was my opinion, and at no point was my intention to say that you were unattractive or not beautiful. I simply believed that certain edits contributed to the aesthetic you were trying to achieve, because I do not see anything like that in your other photos.
I want to emphasize that, in the original post where I shared the image, I thought someone else had edited it. Even then, I made it clear that I did not see any traces of childish features, childhood traits, or anything that I would consider pedophilic in your appearance.
5. I understand that you are very angry, but saying that you are going to destroy me and ratio every post I make until I apologize strikes me as an excessive need for validation. I understand and acknowledge that you feel hurt, but at this point the reaction feels disproportionate.
That is why I locked my account after your community began attacking me under the claim that I was body-shaming you, when all I had was a doubt about a stranger whose photo I believed might have been edited in a way that appealed to an audience attracted to certain body types that remind them of youth.
But to say that I did this because I think I am uglier than you is ridiculous. I think you are a very beautiful woman. However, that does not justify your community becoming completely hostile over a mistake I made regarding a belief or assumption about a photograph whose angle simply did not seem optically coherent to me.
In the rest of your photos, I do not see anything like that at all. It was only that particular image that gave me that impression. For that reason, I do not think it is fair to crucify me over it. If you believe I owe you an apology for what I said, I can offer one. But I also do not think that justifies taking things to the extreme of trying to publicly guillotine me.