Unfortunately, how people perceive you can make your life easy or difficult. For example, no one wants to marry a woman with a bad reputation, no one wants to work or have business dealings with a person who is perceived to be untrustworthy. No one wants to live with a person perceived to be a witch. So, my sister, it sounds nice in theory not to care but unfortunately, that one life you care about will be smooth if you are perceived as a good person.😅