this is why lesbianism is so villainized, straights hate that there's no expectancy of free labor in our relationships. we are equals to each other and not reduced to the "services" we offer. we see each other as people... oh, and probably also that we actually have orgasms lol
Reduced to โmother and wifeโ your entire life, only for your name to not even appear on your own gravestone. Thatโs what dehumanization looks like.