Iya sayang ku, cinta ku, manis ku, dunia ku, bintang ku, bulan ku, matahari ku, galaksi ku, oksigen ku, bunga ku, magnet ku, avoidant tapi bikin nagih ku, penghabis duitku, kulkas ku, es batu ku, brat tamer ku, cantik ku, ganteng ku, daddy ku, raja ku, suami ku????

Tapi kalian sadar gasih avoidant (in term of attachment ya) itu justru baru terasa komunikasinya ngadet pas kita udah mulai deket sama dia. Waktu di awal mah enak banget dia bisa diajak ngobrolin banyak topik tapi ciut kalo udah menyangkut dirinya atau melibatkan feeling

RT @Gretchenfrages: @sehznaya You don’t brush your teeth before bed, you’re avoidant. You don’t stir your porridge, you’re avoidant. It’s n…

mas pipiliin ko pa maging avoidant kesa maging anxious sa totoo lang ah

Babe the best way to deal with an avoidant is make his ass pay for the distance and emotional distress. He pulls away I pop my shit freely and hit them pockets

คือตอนอ่าน csm ครั้งแรกก็ไม่ได้อะไรกับใครเลยนอกจาก มาคิมะ เดนจิ (ชอบด้าน writing) กับโคเบนิ(ตลก) แต่พอมาดูหนังแล้วดันเอนไปทางแองเจิ้ลมากๆ พอเห็นสีหน้า&น้ำเสียงในฉากท้ายเรื่องละแบบ ไอหมอนี่น่าเวทนาจัด5555 ชอบความ avoidant yearning มัน นี่โดนตกกับอาคิเทนตรงฉากนั้น ไม่ใช่ฉากกอด

Samest, sai kitu avoidant anaeza nifanyia nikusonga nipite

RT @ofJiaoqiu: Avoidant this anxious that, how about we stop throwing labels at people dan berlomba jadi orang baik dalam suatu hubungan in…

ile siku you’ll see your ‘avoidant’ with someone they actually really like ndio utajua anaku kitu kama avoidant…they just dont rate you enough (ouch ik)🤣🤣🤣

A yandere Ribbit to fix the avoidant attachment bunny #ribbit #jax #ribbitrabbit #tadc

krn ak self insert, dia jg avoidant jd kl z kabur i ga cari doi yaudah kelar 😞

Why avoidant breakups hurt so deeply • Sudden emotional withdrawal • No real explanation • Mixed signals before leaving • Blame quietly shifted onto you • No clean ending It's the lack of closure that kills you.

Kl tiap kali ada accountability malah kabur, itu bukan avoidant ya teman2, itu cowardice with a nicer label. 🥲 krna bagi gw self-awareness means recognizing ur patterns dan actively working on them, not expecting other people to absorb the impact of them.

After years of dating avoidant attachment, I can say there is no way to find a happy relationship with them. They shut down when intimacy gets real, they dodge emotional responsibility, they keep walls up no matter how much effort you put in. You end up chasing scraps of connection, while they retreat further. Communication feels like pulling teeth, vulnerability is met with silence or withdrawal. You compromise, they resist. You adapt, they detach. The cycle never ends, because their default is distance. You can't build trust when one person refuses to show up. You can't grow when every step forward is met with retreat. It's not about patience or strategy, it's about incompatibility. If someone is locked in avoidance, you're stuck in frustration. The truth is simple, they're not capable of sustaining closeness, and you're left drained. The harsh reality, happiness doesn't exist in that dynamic, only exhaustion. Move on quickly.

2 extroverts 1 introvert and 1 avoidant