Three people I'm dating:
- Jake: Replies instantly, lots of emojis
- Marcus: 3-hour gaps, thoughtful paragraphs
- David: Random timing, voice notes
Wisdom mapped their patterns:
- Jake: "Anxious attachment - needs constant validation"
- Marcus: "Secure - has boundaries"
- David: "ADHD patterns - not playing games, just scattered"
Suddenly I wasn't taking everything personally.
People text how they live.
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