The Grandmother I Now Claim as My Own
She is one of those grandmothers I now claim as my own.
She is the grandmother of my dear friend
@latagal. But somewhere along the way, after Penny introduced us, she quietly became mine too.
Before I ever met her, I had already heard stories about her generosity, especially her service to her church.
For more than fifty years, she has faithfully taken responsibility for the church linen. Every Sunday, the altar cloths must be washed, starched, pressed, and carefully laid out for the service. And after the congregation disperses, she gathers the linen, carries it home, and prepares it again for the following Sunday.
Fifty years of quiet service.
Fifty years of showing up.
Fifty years of love expressed not in grand speeches, but in faithful care.
Those who know the Anglican tradition will understand another mark of the trust placed in her home. Whenever the bishop visited, she was one of the people entrusted to host him.
To host a bishop is both an honor and a responsibility. It signals something deeper: a home known for generosity. After all, a bishop cannot be hosted by someone who is stingy!
During the Covid-19 pandemic, when many families were struggling, this dear grandmother gathered food to share with neighbors in need. Through her family, she helped start the Kafooko Foundation so that this spirit of care could reach even further.
Later, she welcomed a group of leaders I was part of into her home for a weekend retreat. For two days we were cared for, fed generously, and treated like royalty.
And when we were leaving, she placed a gift in each of our hands: a mat and a traditional basket called an Endiro.
Those who understand our African traditions know the deep symbolism in these gifts. A mat is laid down to welcome and seat a guest. An Endiro is used to serve food. Together, they represent hospitality, abundance, and the sacred duty of caring for others.
In other words, she gave us the tools of generosity.
Her kindness stretches far beyond these few stories. Her home is open. Friends and strangers alike are welcomed and treated with warmth, dignity, and grace.
So today, I celebrate this grandmother of generosity.
And I know I have only told a fraction of her story.
Through the
#GoGrandma storytelling campaign,
@GivingTueAfrica and
@CivsourceAfrica are gathering stories of grandmothers whose generosity has shaped families, communities, and entire ways of life across Africa.
So I tag my dear friend Penny to help us tell more of this grandmother’s story.
Penny, over to you……
And to everyone reading this: tell us about the grandmother whose generosity shaped you. Let’s honor them while they are still with us, and remember them well when they are gone.
#GoGrandma
#AfricanGenerosity
#GenerosityInAction