What if itās sexual touch but you just donāt fancy a shag why do you people make this so complicated if youāre making out with someone that is on the maypole for sexual touch and thatās fine itās not the same as a nice hug is it why am I even reading or indeed responding to this
there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.