I’ve been sitting on this one a bit, but packing for the Phoenix showcase. I have to get something off my chest. I’ll start by saying that I coached a ton of club soccer for many years and I understand the time and energy it requires as well as the ever increasing pressure to win games, especially at the highest level. I know I am not alone as a college coach given the eye rolling and wincing that I see coming from colleagues as we witness the screaming and belittling and berating of 16-year-old girls from some club coaches. It’s no wonder why some of them come to us having had their confidence completely destroyed and unable to ever make a decision.
Keep in mind I am Gen Xer that knows coaching should be more than warm and fuzzy all the time. However, the most effective coaches seem to be animated, passionate and motivating while still maintaining a respectful and positive tone (ie Emma Hayes).
Fortunately, it’s not the majority—and I love shouting out those that lead with enjoyment not anger. Would love to hear thoughts on this and how we’ve gotten to a point where we’ve normalized this behavior that can sometimes be classified as downright abusive.
#EarPlugsForTheSideline #LetThemPlay #RecruitingProblems