Nigerians/ Africans have bad ethical upbringing. How are you even visiting someone empty handed?
If I'm visiting anyone, i go with something. Fruits, drinks, biscuits (esp shortbread), bottle of groundnut, chocolate etc.
Sheโs your guest. Why do Nigerian men expect women to perform rubbish ? To prove to you that sheโs worth keeping?? Taaaaa!! Even my mum doesnโt expect me to cook everyday despite being the first daughter. I go Dey house,she go outsource cooking. Who are you and how do you form?