For years, I was dating a ghost. 👻
In 2012, I met one girl for 2go. Her name na Chidinma. We talked endlessly, midnight calls, long conversations, everything felt warm and real. 🌙 I catch feelings fast. She felt like something rare.
When I said I wanted to see her, she said she dey 100 level for Unizik. I planned surprise for her matriculation. she shut am down completely.
Still, me and my guy went. Class rep said “No Chidinma here.” 😶 We called tire, no answer. I went home embarrassed, my guys dey laugh. 😔 E pain me well well, but feelings no gree rest.
Third attempt.. she asked me make I come Onitsha. I went. From 8am till noon I dey call. 📞 She keep saying “I dey come.” She never showed. Heartbroken. 💔
Even when I travelled abroad, we still dey talk. voice calls only, no video once. The connection felt stronger. I genuinely believed e real. 🌍
When I came back, I went Unizik unannounced. Fourth time. Same ghosting. 😤
Four trips. Four failures. Zero explanation. 🚶🏾♂️
That moment something click. I cut her off completely and faced myself. Na so my ghost girlfriend chapter ended.
Even after I walked away, she still dey reach out like nothing happened. 🙄
Some people no deserve the love wey you carry. 💔
Love without proof na just hope. 🕯️
When person show you pattern, believe am. 👀
Walking away sometimes na the greatest love you fit show yourself. 🙏🏾
How many of you have met people online from 2go back then?
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No judgment zone ❤️🩹
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