It's understandable not to generalise it which is understandable, I doubt I added the word "some" I don't like generalising matters unfortunately typoerror won today.
The aspect of selfless sacrifice by parents is not always forgotten in Africa that's one thing I'll stand by. African youths barely forget sacrifices made by their parents, if you see any African child ignoring any parent whether mum or dad always look deeper.
Lastly, it's not WOKENESS, As someone who attends physical conferences a lot on cases like this I can categorically tell you this: Before African youths complain about something in families you should know it is almost a norm in homes. The percentage of manipulative parents is way higher than that of the ones that don't manipulate and the reason is that many African parents do not all give birth to children as a retirement plan which we cannot deny so when the child isn't meeting certain financial needs for them they become manipulative. The fact that I have a granny and mum who don't do that to me or your parents doesn't do that to you doesn't mean the numbers ain't high, it is way high and we see a lot how some of those manipulations have affected many youths, male or female their financial, marital, business and even their homes as married people.
Again it's not all African parents but the number of the manipulated ones is way higher.
And for those whose parents are manipulative when you said they should grow to become different it will take a lot of work for them because many times what you constantly feel, hear, see subconsciously become a part of you and why you're different may not be because you put in effect to be different but rather because of the energy from your parents that has made your subconscious mind different.
I pray we all become better parents.
Every complaint is not WOKENESS it is a cry of something that has been on and it's absolutely wrong to dismiss it because we never experienced it or because we are different.
How's my baby Dabz doing m