Good Morning Agba.
I’ve watched this discussion since yesterday and I have to come in here.
Men, if you know you have high sexual libido and you can’t stay for months without sex, DON’T MARRY A VIRGIN. You will have countless quarrels and it could eventually break or weaken the bond of your marriage.
Women if you know you have a low Sex urge and can stay without Sex for months, then don’t marry a Man that is hyperactive meaning he can have sex everyday as food, he will likely cheat not because he wants to but because he doesn’t want to keep having that sexual discussion and quarrels with you.
What most Men do not know about Marriage is that whatever you ignores becomes a PATTERN. So men need to address a lot of issues before or inside marriage.
Seek Therapist, speak to Families, speak up instead counting on masturbation as her relationship. That’s not a permanent solution rather it a step closer to you having an extramarital affairs.
As a Pastor, I know most Christians Men suffer this. They more not admit it on Social Media. Some in the CS may also be having this same issue.
God Bless you Agba