The main pitfall of feminism is it didn’t account for the fact that women become extremely unhappy when they have to take on masculine energy.
They can do it. But it royally pisses them off when they have to.
And because feminists demanded it- not just the right to do so if needed, but that the social dynamic had to be changed altogether- then weak willed men were like, “fine,” and abdicated all responsibility.
Women are not happier today. And neither are men.