Hi there! I’m Rachael Rose (she/her) and I’m a Certified Sex & Relationship Coach and Educator. I’m also chronically ill/disabled, queer, neurodivergent (ADHD), and polyamorous.
Learn more about my coaching services, workshops, and sex education work at: Hedonish.com
What's the last thing you thought about your body? Was it kind? If not, it's time to start paying your body the respect it deserves.
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Self love is critical in day to day life. I challenge you to give yourself 3 compliments (or more) TODAY!
Most of us don’t have the $1000's needed to access medical/ scientific research the journals. But while there are countless ways that money is a barrier to getting proper medical care, getting ahold of the research info you need isn't: hedonish.com/free-journal-ar…
A “fragrance” can include dozens to hundreds of individual chemicals, some of which are known carcinogens, neurotoxins, endocrine disruptors, or known to cause allergies.
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All teenagers should have access to sex/HIV education that is medically accurate and can help them make informed decisions moving forward.
Read more about the topic, and what can be done to make change here: guttmacher.org/fact-sheet/ab… .
Don't have a WAP? No worries—store bought is just as great! There's so much unnecessary stigma around using lube, but here's the truth: there are almost countless reasons why someone might not be wet (check out my other post to read more about this!)
Is your ADHD harder to manage around your period? You aren't imagining things...because it actually is.
Estrogen exacerbates ADHD symptoms while also affecting other contributing factors like sleep, verbal memory, mood, and the dopamine reward system.
If your cycle makes your ADHD harder to manage, it's not just you! Hormone fluctuations especially estrogen, exacerbate ADHD symptoms and impacts sleep, memory, mood, and the dopamine reward system.
If you have #ADHD and menstruate, how do you feel those factors affect you?
Let those who aren't a good fit opt out before your feelings are involved. They're not going to become the person you need just because you want them to be. Safe yourself the hurt and feelings of rejection—you deserve so much better than that.
There's no right way to open up a relationship, no right way to be in a relationship, and no timeline that things are "supposed to" happen on. Figuring out what's right for you and being honest and upfront with your partner(s) is a good place to start.
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Take a step back and think about where sex, pleasure, and intimacy fit into your life right now. What do they look like for you?
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It's important to remember that you don't need to fit unrealistic ideals of what these things should be in your life.
A theme I see with my chronically ill/disabled clients is how internalized ableism leaks into every aspect of life, but especially so in relationships. You do not need to feel "lucky" to be in a relationship with someone who isn't giving you the kindness and respect you deserve.
Latex allergies/sensitivities aren't always the dramatic anaphylaxis you might be picturing. Sensitivities/allergies can develop at any time and can present as anything from skin irritation to full-blown anaphylaxis.
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Social media has become an integral part of our culture that it's easy to forget that they're run by private corporations that can ban, hide, or restrict content in any way they see fit.
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Lube makes sex better (yes, really). There's a lot of lubes on the market, and many contain ingredients you'll want to avoid, but here's a quick overview of the types of lubes available on the market.
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Bisexual individuals often experience #biphobia from both LGBTQ and heterosexual folks, and statistically have higher rates of mental and physical health issues and substance abuse than monosexual folks (heterosexual/gay/lesbian).
Rather than telling women not to apologize so much, perhaps we could educate people better about consent and how to gracefully accept a "no," so that it stops being necessary for women to apologize for turning down unwanted advances.
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You never realize how boring as fuck it is to be sick until a chronic illness and ADHD collide.
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[ALT TEXT: Tweet from Rachael Rose, @hedonish:
I have way too much ADHD to be this chronically ill. It's boring as fuck to be sick.]