Whenever I ask a player what they’re looking for in a college, I’ll sometimes hear:
“Facilities.”
Facilities are like buying a new car.
The first few months feel great.
Everything’s shiny.
You feel “cool.”
Then six months go by…
And it’s just your car.
The feeling wears off.
And now you’re already looking at the next one.
But here’s the part most players miss:
The car isn’t what makes the experience.
The people riding in it do.
Facilities eventually become background noise.
Coaches, teammates, culture, and daily environment do not.
One of those gets old.
The other can develop you into the player and person you become for the rest of your life.
So when you’re choosing a school, don’t just ask: “Does this place look impressive?”
Ask:
Who am I being coached by every day?
Who am I competing with?
Who am I learning from when things aren’t going well?
Who am I becoming in this environment?
Because a cool car fades.
The right people can build you into the best version of yourself.