◽️ Another funny dilemma:
◽️ My client came to me with a request about self-realization.
◽️ A very popular topic people often feel like they’re not on the right path, especially without a proper level of wins.
◽️ On his part, the decision was made to stop “working for uncle” and he decided to start his own project.
◽️ The result of this choice caused a sharp drop in the monetary rate of his offer and his income fell, but the guy started doing his own thing (or what he considered as such).
◽️ This decision instantly triggered a negative opinion from former colleagues, friends and family. Misunderstanding, and as a consequence - rejection.
◽️ “You’re doing something stupid...”, “...go find a job...”, “stop floating around looking for yourself...” and other moralizing slogans from the depths of the collective unconscious were thrown at him.
◽️ You may not believe it, but it got to the point of conflicts, and it almost turned into a fight, and this was with friends.
◽️ But I recommended that he evaluate everything honestly and cleanly, as it really is, not as it is perceived by others:
◽️ It turned out that he works for himself, he has a job, and he has income. It’s not big not because there is no work, but because he doesn’t have that many orders on freelance yet (he’s not that widely advertised). He has some kind of house that he rents himself.
◽️ Meanwhile, his friends are completely dependent on another person who can fire them with a snap of the fingers, and in the current economic situation in the country that’s the easiest thing in the world.
◽️ Moreover, all their property, movable and immovable: cars and housing for the most part, is inheritance received from deceased ancestors. Or bought with money from that inheritance.
◽️ Comparing these two pictures, we see that the guy is a “steppe wolf” who broke away from the pack, didn’t lose his fangs or his grip, and perfectly owns his own resource and his own achievements.
◽️ And what do you think is the young man right, or should he listen to the traditions of public opinion?
◽️ Write in the comments;