Wife, Mom, Coffee lover, AF Veteran, Hockey fan! My friend, this life we live It's not what we have, it's what we believe

Joined November 2011
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So 20 yr old kid is working on cooking so helped her make lemon pepper chicken w/scratch Alfredo sauce and rosemary bread. Since we be teaching here three platings: pasta fork method, ladel method, and the "dad i like it like this" method" #twittersupperclub
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Today I meet an evil person & the cutest kid.... It was just an ordinary day at the grocery store, everyone’s in a hurry. I was standing in the checkout line with with my cart when I heard a voice above all the noise. A little boy standing beside his mom, singing Christmas carols. β€œJingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way…” His whole body moved with the music. He swayed, rocking on his feet. I could tell right away he was autistic. Completely lost in his own world, oblivious to the store around him. His mother stood close, one hand resting lightly on his shoulder. She looked tired, the kind of tired that comes from loving a child who experiences the world differently, but her eyes were soft with pride and protection. She smiled at him every few seconds, encouraging without words. Then the woman in front of me turned around. She glared at the mother and snapped, loud enough for half the line to hear, β€œCan you shut your kid up?” The mother said β€œI’m so sorry… He’s just singing. It helps him calm down. I’m really sorry.” My chest tightened. I’ve seen that look before, the quiet apology of a parent who’s been judged one too many times. In that instant, my dad’s voice echoed in my head, β€œSon, kill meanness with kindness. It’s the only thing that ever really works.” I looked at the guy behind me, we didn’t need to speak. We both felt it. So I started singing really soft β€œOh what fun it is to ride in a one-horse open sleigh…” The guy behind me picked it up. The little boy’s face lit up as he started to sing with us. Suddenly the checkout line wasn’t just a line anymore. It became a choir. A few other people smiled and hummed along. The tension that had been building cracked open and something warm and human poured out. It was beautiful. Not polished or perfect, just real. Three strangers, a little boy, and a simple song turning an ordinary moment into something beautiful. The rude woman didn't say a word. She grabbed her purse and stormed out, leaving her half-unloaded cart behind. A quiet cheer rippled through the line. After I paid, I stepped outside where they were in the parking lot. The mom loading groceries into her minivan while the boy stood nearby, still humming to himself. Something in my chest pulled me forward. In the back of my truck I keep a few small stuffed horses from the ranch. Little stuffed horses I sometimes use in sessions or give to kids who need a friend to hold onto. I grabbed one and walked over. β€œMa’am, I hope this isn’t too forward butI run Diego Ranch, an equine therapy program for kids with autism, disabilities, and veterans healing from trauma. These little horses have helped a lot of children find their smiles and their voices. Would it be okay if I gave this one to him?” Her eyes lit up. β€œYou don’t have to do that…” But the boy had already seen the horse and he had the biggest smile. He reached out with both hands, hugged the little horse to his chest like a long-lost friend. "Merry Christmas in June,” I said with a small laugh. As I drove away, that little boy’s smile stayed with me the whole ride home. My dad was right. Killing meanness with kindness doesn’t just shut the darkness down it turns up the light. It creates ripples that keep moving long after the moment is over. That boy reminded me exactly why we do what we do at Diego Ranch. For every child the world tries to quiet, there’s a song inside them waiting to be heard. There’s a horse waiting to listen without judgment. And there’s always room for one more voice to join the harmony. THIS IS WHY PEOPLE DONATE TO DIEGO RANCH givesendgo.com/diegoranch?ut…
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Roasted garlic and mater egg white omlet this morning #twittersupperclub
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A special #twittersupperclub posting. While my father was at family gathering for Youngest Youngin he was musing about his love of apple fritters, so surprised him with a box of fresh ones from excellent bakery you can see the apple chunks in. Today back Up Yonder & enjoying it
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