World traveler, JCrew addict, commodities broker, book snob, cattle feeder, Democrat, Prada obsessed animal lover whose family comes first.

Joined June 2010
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I feel this
I saw someone say, “My hyper-independence comes from how little urgency people show when it comes to me,” and honestly, that resonated deeply.
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RT @mariaregina_cb: Detesto decirlo, pero una mujer que trabaja más de 40 horas a la semana y se encarga de todo sola, no va ser la mujer s…
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It’s vile and disrespectful. If you join a life with someone even for a few months, you obviously cared for them. To bash and talk shit is actually making you look like the moron. Like why did you date/marry them then? #GetAClue
Badmouthing someone who used to be your friend or partner is so low and weird. Move on and stop being bitter.
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Same
I dislike people who present themselves as solid and genuine, yet move through life manipulating others, and then they sell a clean image to the world while being messy and deceitful behind closed doors.
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I see you - #IYKYK
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I make ppl uncomfortable because I see through the facade, you're not a good person, you can play in everyone else's face but not mine.
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Hahahha good lord. This seems so obvious to me yet I see women do this to their kids all the time. It’s horrifying and disgusting.
Evlada küsülmez, evlatla dertleşilmez. Evlat, çevreye kötülenmez. Evladın sırrı açık edilmez. Evlat, sizin dert ortağınız veya psikoloğunuz değildir. Anne babaya, baba anneye kötülenmez. Evlada travmalar ve kötü bir geçmiş anlatılmaz. Evladınızı rahat bırakın.
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terrified of anyone who has a problem with what she said.
In a new video, Jo Frost, aka Supernanny, warns that some modern parents are hindering their kids’ independence by choosing short-term convenience over teaching basic life skills. The Instagram post featuring the video is filled with comments from teachers agreeing with her that it’s a growing concern. @Jo_Frost
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Omg this is 🔥🔥 I tell this to people all the time. Experiencing other cultures is so important.
I noticed something: People who have traveled a lot tend to judge less. Not because they became nicer, but because they've seen too many versions of what's "normal." In one country, it's normal to eat with your hands. In another, it's normal to stay quiet at the table. In a third, it's normal to hug strangers. When you've seen 30 different versions of "the right way," you stop believing yours is the only one. Travel doesn't just teach geography. It teaches tolerance.
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Good morning 🩷
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you can't claim to love someone while repeatedly choosing actions that destroy their peace.
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Yup this is a factual statement
You can always tell when someone has spent their entire life tearing others down and never once faced a real consequence for it. It is in the way they carry themselves. The casual cruelty that comes too easily, the complete absence of remorse, the slight surprise when someone finally pushes back. People who have never been held accountable develop a particular kind of boldness that has nothing to do with confidence and everything to do with a lifetime of getting away with it.
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lol I love this
As a woman, one of my deepest darkest desires is to be completely useless to men. You know when they say women over 30 are expired; childfree women are selfish; ugly, fat, old women are unfuckable. I dream of being that level of useless to men. Because that's when they'll finally leave you alone.
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My grandma and I were talking about the concept of marital rape today, and it made me realize how much we owe to the feminist movement and the fight for women's rights. She told me that when she was young, a woman literally had no say over her own body once she married. The moment you signed that license, you belonged to your husband. If he wanted to do it, you had to submit, no matter how tired, sick, or unwilling you were. There was no word for it, no law against it, and absolutely no support if you said no. It was just considered a wife's duty. It was a heavy reminder of how hard women had to fight just to legally own their own bodies. For generations, women quietly endured violations in their own beds because the law refused to protect them. Hearing her speak about the modern concept of consent with such genuine relief made me realize how vital female autonomy is. Marriage is not a contract that signs away your rights, and your body is always your own.
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⬇️ so many inauthentic people. It’s gross.
If everyone likes you, you are either inauthentic, dead, or throwing a party. Those are the only three options. Only people pleasers are liked by everyone.
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You can tell when someone’s entire life is performative, it’s pathetic.
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People who repeat behavior you’ve already addressed are really just saying ‘fuck you’ to your face
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Hahaha so true
People obsessed with being seen as good people are never good people.
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lol facts
I find it jarring how every woman Ive met. who chose to be childfree always seem to have the patience, income, and mental maturity perfect for raising a child. Yet everytime I see a woman who’s open to having a child they’re the exact opposite.
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You can love someone deeply and still realize they are draining the life out of you.
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