#YangGang I need help. On December 8th, the real hero of my UBI story with
@AndrewYang, my mom, passed away. I took care of her for 8 years, 3 months, and 27 days. We went broke together, rebuilt together, and during the last year and a half, started falling again as her health demanded more of my attention. In January of this year she had a fall which seemed to set off a series of health issues. The entire year was filled with hospital stays, ER visits, 911 calls, ambulance rides, falls, bleeding, pain,fevers, tears, an incredibly high number of needles, tests, and medication changes. In the end, her cancer never came back but the complications became too many. Even though we had our living kidney transplant scheduled for July 12th 2021, we were cancelled about 2 weeks before because other health issues were discovered. She never lost a battle until the internal bleeding came along a few months back and just could not be stopped. When she was home, she required almost constant care. When she was not home, I was almost constantly with her. I refused to let her fight alone. My business suffered as I declined most requests for services. I just had to be there for my mom and absolutely nothing would stop me from being there. I am now at a crossroads in life where I am deciding what's left of me, what parts to rebuild and what to let go of forever.
The immediate need is to help me take care of mom's final expenses (we decided to delay the official services until her birthday, April 5), medical bills that may come in, and legal fee's for some issues that may arise. My mom got sick young, she worked incredibly hard her entire life but just never got any traction. By the time she found out she was sick, she was too sick to get any meaningful life insurance. If you are able and willing to help, all my payment app information is in my profile, cash app, venmo, paypal. If you wish to talk to me first, or help me by other means, feel free to message me.
In those 8 years, 3 months and 27 days, I was compensated less than $900 in total. I was paid less than $900 over 8 years while keeping my mom at home and out of nursing institutions that would have cost the government $3000-$4000 per month had I not been there ready and willing to step up. If I was not there and if she would have ended up in a nursing home at the lower rate of $3000 a month that would be $36,000 for a single. I was compensated $900 for over 8 years . I want to help change this.
There was also a period of time where an administrative error caused her to not have any coverage. I am not sure what is in store for those particular bills as no one seemed to want to take responsibility or help sort that out. I just know that I could sure use some help to get me through this. When this mess gets cleared up, in addition to a potential career change I intend to advocate for uncompensated caregivers. I am looking for prominent political and media voices to help me help others by making it easier for people like me to not end up like me in this position and to earn at least a minimum wage while doing this much needed task. While people like me do this work out of love, I believe we would all also love to not go broke in the process.
Thank you for everything
#YangGang. Hopefully our paths all continue to cross, and whether it's UBI, RCV, or a new law to help family caregivers earn a little wage, I do believe it is people like us that will make the country a better place.