My advice:
Don’t let yourself get entangled in a mess you’re not ready for.
Choose very carefully priests you decide to trust.
When you see a boundary being crossed, cut yourself off from the contact immediately. Don’t let yourself interpret it as “fatherly care”. It’s not.
Why was I gone from here?
Because I got extremely wronged by a priest in my parish.
I’m now trying to rebuild my trust in church from scratch. That’s how bad what happened was.