Thank you!! I can hold my eyes open now and I can swallow a bit easier but it's very uncomfortable between pain meds 😅 the worst should be behind me though
I think tops are over represented online and in my personal friend groups, but I feel like the majority maybe end up somewhere in the first three categories. I feel like girls who only top aren't as rare as some people say, but definitely not like, ubiquitous.
Btw I understand that the real issue is the assumption a trans woman will always top, and for the large number of people who do have severe bottom dysphoria, I do think it's best to detach the idea of a trans woman from her birth genitalia. I just think its interesting
I feel like wrt bottom dysphoria, ime people tend to fall into groups like:
- Bottom dysphoria is severe, please do not even talk about it
- it's fine but don't focus on it
- I don't love it, but while it's here I'll use it
- No bottom dysphoria and exclusively tops (me)
I've been talking about FFS nonstop since my consult and when I said I'm getting surgery this week I still had people thinkin I was gettin a pussy put it . LIKE NO IM KEEPING THE DICK MAN